Why is it so much easier for females to talk to guys rather than their own girlfriends??

***If I think back on all the guy friends that I have had, it seems as if all of them have been completely more receptive than any of my girlfriends. Idk maybe it’s just me and I can appreciate the realness that a true male friend will give you (even if it hurts).At my school, I have encountered 3 males that I have become very close with and it just seems like they are more open to listen than my girlfriends. Now I am not saying that my girlfriends do not care about what I am saying to them it just seems as if everything is easier to explain and discuss when I share it with one of these 3 males. They are the only 3 people I know that can correctly put me in my place. There is no sugar coding, lying, or withdrawal of any sort when dealing with them. They allow me to be me, but still remind me that there is a time and place for everything. They all play their roles very different but still remain effective as a friend to me. One of them is more of the aggressor; he will physically show me what needs to be done and how to do it. He is more of a “tell it like it is kind of guy.” He will let me whine, cry, speak, or whatever tell me what it is and then tell me to stop being so sensitive and then go with me to get drinks or do something random. He is my ride or die friend; if I want to scheme on somebody, or do something crazy he would be right there with me. I call him my personal trainer, because he prepares me to be stronger than what I am, and gets me ready for any given situation. The other one is a real suave kind of guy and is more verbal with me. I can literally sit on the phone with him all day and by the end of the conversation he will have me thinking about the situation completely different then I was before. He is very good with words, but will NEVER bullshit me. He is the guy friend that is always right in any advice he give me. I call him my mentor. The last friend is more of a finesse kind of guy. He is more sensitive than the other two, but he realizes that I have feelings, so he kind of speaks to me softer (kind of like he is trying to put himself in my shoes). He is very expressive with his feelings himself, so it’s a lot easier for him to feel what I am feeling. He is always feeding me motivational words.He is the one that will let me cry as long as I need to and sit right there with me until I feel better. I consider him my guardian angel, because he is concerned about my well-being as well as my feelings.

All three of these guys are always there when I need them…to listen, speak, and keep it moving, and even if they are not truly listening to me they do a darn good job of staying put until I am done with them. Now I am not saying that it is impossible to find genuine girlfriends who won’t be there when you need them, bc I do have some very clutch ones; however, sometimes you just need those friends that won’t let you sulk for too long but also give you what you NEED to hear. But who knows, I’m just saying everything makes more sense and seems so much easier when I am talking to them, it’s like they understand me.