So this maybe some what of a [rude] post, but I guess i'm just venting >>> OKAY SOOOOO, there are some things that really irritate me about dudes, and i know that sometimes different circumstances call for different things but c'mon. So if you have ever been dealing with a dude and you find out that they have interest in, flirt with, would possibly get with or have "been with" another female that is on a COMPLETELY different level then you are, you understand that that is a BIG TURN OFF. And i don't just mean intellectually [I'm talking >>> looks, reputation, and even mindset]. This has happen to me twice this year; the dudes that I was dealing with were completely unaware that they were "making bad choices" lol....and trust me this is not a cockiness of any kind; however, sometimes you have to call it like you see it. When i look at some of the things that the guys [im referring to] have been with or even thought about being with, it turns me away bc I'm thinking "wow what is it about her that makes you"...well you get it... and i know that attraction can go so many different ways and the reasoning behind liking someone maybe different. Heck i even understand that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but sometimes things will ALWAYS be what they are no matter how you look at them. The only reason I even brought this up was bc today [and yesterday] i was browsing through facebook and twitter and I saw some things that i felt some type of way about. It grossed me out to see some of the things I saw knowing that in the back of my mind those guys [that i was referring to] would actually be attracted to. The girls...were gross and quite frankly appeared as if they had been found laying somewhere and someone attempted to remodel them...and it didn't work. I mean c'mon some things are what they seem >>>UGLY and a little dirty lol. So i'm just saying i know theres different strokes for different folks, but i feel some type of way when a guys likes me and another girl that is in a completely lower caliber then I am. UGGGHHH it grosses me out...So i may not even talk to these guys anymore....ohhh and another things (which is absolutely the worse) both of these guys swear they are the absolute greatest gift from God and I will never find better....ummmm well trust me i will sorry. i am not trying to be rude I am just simply venting.