...everybody keeps talking about how this person is that and that person is this; most of the time the people the we are claiming to hate or [dislike]are the same people we [WANT] in our lives and in fact [NEED] in a way to enhance our being. Think about it.... that same girl that gets 'haters' left and right is the same girl that boys want to be with (are we jealous of her ??)and that same boy that everybody claims is a dog and wants to fight is the actually the one that has his priorities in line and people just can't stand to see others excelling. Have you ever heard the saying 'You are the company you keep' or 'birds of a feather flock together' if so you know that these saying are true in every manner. We hang out with people we either fit comfortably with or want to be just like. You never see a 'hoe' hanging out with 'church girls' or a 'dope boi' chilling with 'prep boi-s' they just won't mix. The point I'm trying to make is simply this: you simply hate the people you can't get to. If you see a chic getting with the dude you like she instantly becomes a hoe and not b/c she actually is one (which may be the case) but b/c she has what you WANT. In the same sense, you see a dude being talked about for his style of dress or b/c he seems well off he too instantly becomes the talk of the town, but only b/c he has what other niggas NEED. Most of the time when we gossip about someone we are gossiping with the same people who can't achieve what they want either, so we conjugate and talk to make ourselves feel better [lol hahaha funny stuff]. when we realize that the more people we have on our side is better then we will be better off. B/c see in this world its not about how many people we can get to hate us or how many people we can hate...its about how many people we know and who those people are to get us a step above where we are. We NEED those people we gossip about to get us what they have (or at least show us how to obtain it)...and regardless of what we think we WANT those people are on our team cuz they make us look good ;} So think about that the next time you waste an hour on formspring and facebook talking crap about somebody that your following on twitter LMFAO....